Agreed that communication is good in a relationship but people have argued that giving your partner some space is also critical for the health of the relationship.
TheElucidator made a list of reactions of netizens regarding the right amount of space that is needed for healthy relationship.
According to Life coach, Solomon Buchi on his X handle:
“If you don’t communicate everyday in your relationship, I honestly don’t understand what you are doing. Oh, that’s just how you are, you like your space? So in marriage you’ll stay for days without talking to your partner in the same house? If you like your space like that, date and marry your space!
Reacting an X user, Daramola said: Simple as ABC
If a couple lives together but doesn’t talk, they shouldn’t be together.
It’s okay to need space for quiet time, but don’t use it to be spiteful.
Love each other because life is short.
Communication is key ️”
According to 4lurless, “For a relationship to function, there has to be a healthy balance of space and connection.
Too much space leads to disconnect.
Too much connection leads to suffocation.
It’s all about finding the right balance.”
On her part, Chidinmma Precious, said:
“Smiles. Some persons would say that is the way I am.
But in a relationship, communication is everything. It prevents little problems from growing into issues. It creates a bond between people to get to know each other more.”
How to strike the balance
The Importance of Space
Space in a relationship allows individuals to maintain their identity, pursue personal interests, and grow independently. It’s the breath of fresh air that rejuvenates the soul and brings new perspectives into the union. Without it, partners may feel suffocated, leading to resentment and loss of self.
The Role of Communication
Communication, on the other hand, is the thread that binds partners together. It’s the medium through which love, desires, fears, and dreams are conveyed. Effective communication fosters understanding, empathy, and connection, ensuring that both partners are heard and valued.
Striking the Balance
The balance between space and communication is not a fixed point but a spectrum that shifts with the dynamics of the relationship. It requires attentiveness to the needs of both partners and the relationship as a whole. Here are some tips to maintain this balance:
Establish Boundaries: Discuss and respect each other’s need for personal space and time.
-Quality Over Quantity: Make the moments of communication count. Focus on depth and understanding rather than the frequency of interaction.
Embrace Trust: Trust your partner’s need for space without fear. It’s a sign of a secure and mature relationship.
Check-in Regularly: While respecting space, regular check-ins can keep the connection alive and prevent misunderstandings.
Grow Together: Use the insights gained from personal space to enrich the relationship with new ideas and experiences.
It is important to note that like dancers in sync, space and communication must move together gracefully. By giving each other room to breathe and ensuring a steady flow of heartfelt communication, relationships can flourish, offering a harmonious blend of unity and individuality. Remember, it’s not about finding a perfect balance but about creating a rhythm that works for both partners in the dance of love.